Need Help Again

[Captin Krunch]

I have another problem on my hands that i dont quite know how to handle...This girl that i have been talking to has gotten to the point where she is depressed and wants to talk about alllll of her problems....what do i say??..what do i do, when she brings up those subjects?.....a couple of years ago the "human tampon" side would have came out to talk about those problems...but i have learned and i am in the proccess of getting rid of "mr. niceguy":trouble: !!

 

[Captain Harlock]

Don't react to it with more than one or two words. Don't talk to her when she's bringing it up all the time. Eventually she'll stop seeing you as an emotional tampon.

 

[Captain]

By listening to her problems, you're still her emotional tampon. Change the subject. If she keeps going on about it, stop seeing her. A woman should be a positive addition to your life, not something that drags you down.

 

[jeffthechef]

LMAO..3 CAPTAINS POSTED IN A ROW
HAHA
thought that was funny

 

[(JJ)]

^ hah....


and yea, as it's been said already, a woman should only ADD to your life. Putting up with that stuff seems to be a negative influence. What are you doing messing around with this stuff? You didn't break her, it's not your job to fix her. Quit thinking it's your responsibility to listen and have her bring down your mood for no reason. Move on to bigger and better things.