"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have another problem on my hands that i dont quite know how to handle...This girl that i have been talking to has gotten to the point where she is depressed and wants to talk about alllll of her problems....what do i say??..what do i do, when she brings up those subjects?.....a couple of years ago the "human tampon" side would have came out to talk about those problems...but i have learned and i am in the proccess of getting rid of "mr. niceguy":trouble: !!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Don't react to it with more than one or two words. Don't talk to her when she's bringing it up all the time. Eventually she'll stop seeing you as an emotional tampon.
 
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^ hah....


and yea, as it's been said already, a woman should only ADD to your life. Putting up with that stuff seems to be a negative influence. What are you doing messing around with this stuff? You didn't break her, it's not your job to fix her. Quit thinking it's your responsibility to listen and have her bring down your mood for no reason. Move on to bigger and better things.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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