"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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need help after initial date!!!

dropdat

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So im great at getting numbers and getting the first date going. But once i hit the first date i kind of don't know where to go from there. I've been on 9 dates in the last 7 days with 6 different girls and every single date seemed to go very well with flowing conversation the whole time and lots of chemistry, but out of all the girls i only ended up sleeping with one. Are there any tips or tricks you guys have for me. ways to change my game to make that initial date or 2 go to the next level?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Your doing great... with those numbers your averaging getting laid once a week. That would be over 50 times a year. That means that is over 500 in a decade. Some people happy to have more then fingers on one hand in their life time..
 

dropdat

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you may be right but i just feel like there's more i can do. or I'm doing something wrong. with all the time i spending with women shouldn't i be getting more?
 
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