So im great at getting numbers and getting the first date going. But once i hit the first date i kind of don't know where to go from there. I've been on 9 dates in the last 7 days with 6 different girls and every single date seemed to go very well with flowing conversation the whole time and lots of chemistry, but out of all the girls i only ended up sleeping with one. Are there any tips or tricks you guys have for me. ways to change my game to make that initial date or 2 go to the next level?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
need help after initial date!!!
- Thread starter dropdat
- Start date