"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need Guidance in Life

dirtyvibe

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At one point in my life, I wanted to get a pHD in physics and work at a place like NASA to .. invent starship propulsion, ala Star Trek. Things that will really matter for the future of humanity. I wanted to make the future now.

I'm 18 now, and in the past few years, I have unbecome a nerd. I can now relate to other people, largely thanks to sites like SoSuave and mASF. Because of you guys, I have gotten into bodybuilding and taken care of the female and social parts of my life. I appreciate other things, especially business. I'll be going to college in 3 or 4 months.

My two options.. persue a career in business management or accounting and start a business or become an accountant.. make $$$. My other option: do what I always dreamed of, work torwards a pHD in physics and get a job working for the future. It feels like a little kid's dreaming versus the reality of the world. Big crossroad here.

Anyone else who has been at the point in life that I am in now, please respond, help me out.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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shydude

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Folow your dreams, I never give up the dreams, even if they are hopeless. I wanna be an actor and a musician. Lots of people tell me my dreams are crap and every kid has those dreams. Well i dont care, couse i got talent, and I am becoming a good singer, and a DJ. So your dreams are normal, and you should folow them. I would NOT suggest getting carrer in business management, thats a regular job, WE LIVE ONCE!~ Make your dreams a reality, become unique, become famous for you will never be forgoten.
 

poohead

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you will lose sight of this, especially first semester freshman year - but always remember that your grades come first in college. you will regret blowing off that test and only getting a B in that class. and i also say follow the phd dream - you will be happier in the long run. good luck.
 

Friendly Otter

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You won't get more money in accounting than in physics. And something that has to do with actual production is always safer than something that is meant to serve the production. And I say this studying business.

The best combination is to learn physics, then take a class in basic accounting when you're done. Then you got the most important part of the business classes, and can run a company if you want to!
 

misterethoughts

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follow your dreams.. I am doing it as i write this... writing... never give up..money will come... if you love what you do trust me...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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penkitten

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dude, follow your dream and follow it now while you dont have a bunch of kids or a wife to make you rethink and down scale your dreams.
later, when you are working for nasa you can meet a really good woman who might work there too, enjoying the same things that you do.

there are tons of women who really love smart guys.
 
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