My tip, get rid of the damn deadline. Why the hell do you need a girl? You don't need sh*t. You start thinking this way, and you're bound to get desperate, you're bound to settle, you're bound to f*ck up. Put too much pressure on yourself, and you'll get nowhere.
You WANT a girl. Don't need one. Be picky man. Why settle? It's pointless. Just work hard.
I want a 69 camaro. Granted, I'll probably get a sh*tty car before then, but I'm busting my ass to save the cash for that sexy mother f*cker. Other than some car I'm going to get just to get places, I refuse to settle for anything less than a 69 Camaro. My 2nd car WILL be a Camaro. No if, ands, or buts about it.