I'm thinking I ain't alone here. 31st is coming up and I'm outa cash (yea, I DID). I know I cant be too picky right now , hell prolly wont make it to next year but is there any advice anyone can give me. Like **** that is isn't acceptable/decent idea on a deadline?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Need girl fast
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
My tip, get rid of the damn deadline. Why the hell do you need a girl? You don't need sh*t. You start thinking this way, and you're bound to get desperate, you're bound to settle, you're bound to f*ck up. Put too much pressure on yourself, and you'll get nowhere.
You WANT a girl. Don't need one. Be picky man. Why settle? It's pointless. Just work hard.
I want a 69 camaro. Granted, I'll probably get a sh*tty car before then, but I'm busting my ass to save the cash for that sexy mother f*cker. Other than some car I'm going to get just to get places, I refuse to settle for anything less than a 69 Camaro. My 2nd car WILL be a Camaro. No if, ands, or buts about it.
You WANT a girl. Don't need one. Be picky man. Why settle? It's pointless. Just work hard.
I want a 69 camaro. Granted, I'll probably get a sh*tty car before then, but I'm busting my ass to save the cash for that sexy mother f*cker. Other than some car I'm going to get just to get places, I refuse to settle for anything less than a 69 Camaro. My 2nd car WILL be a Camaro. No if, ands, or buts about it.
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easy. either read pooks book or tell the girl you will split half the money if she pretends shes with you, ahahaha. sorry :crazy:GaryUranga said:
Hey who knows maybe I'll find a nice slut at the party."Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.