"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ok I'm in a major dilemma now...

So i have to dump the GF, but I don't wanna hurt her ofcourse. The problem is she's 50 miles away from me, don't have a car and I got a date tonight.

Yesterday I called one of the girls i met last week, she and her best friend with her BF came. The guy tells me she's been wanking about me since thursday (i knew her since wednesday), the party goes on, we all get a little tipsy and I kiss-closed her. Tonight she's coming to my place to watch a movie. Chances I'm getting laid tonight are extremly high... (depending on if she's a virgin or not).

Now I don't know what to do with my gf... she's comming over to my place tomorow. Now it would be a major pain to dump her then cause she just sat about an hour on the train just to get dumped right.
Do I call her to break up?
Do I wait till this weekend, call her friday and tell her we gotta talk, then meet up and tell her I'm not fully into us anymore, and that I'm in to much doubt to go on...
Or do I tell her tomorow which IMO is the worst solution...

(normally i would post in my fr thread but chances of getting a swift response are a bit to low...)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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why are you breaking up with her? Just because you are getting with another chick tonight? Since you don't mind losing your GF anyhow, but you still don't want to hurt her... why not keep her around and just associate the relationship differently - just hang with her sometimes - have sex.


but if it were me, maybe I would call and tell her that I cant hang out tomorrow that something came up.. then I would ignore her calls or whatever for a few days.. so she starts realizing something is up. She can actually start mentally preparing that something is wrong... Then I would throw a BIG BAG of Flaming SH1T at her and Yell "WEE ARE DONNEEE!!". Do this in a car speeding past her house, hopefully her family witnesses it.
 
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Randallpink83 said:
why are you breaking up with her? Just because you are getting with another chick tonight? Since you don't mind losing your GF anyhow, but you still don't want to hurt her... why not keep her around and just associate the relationship differently - just hang with her sometimes - have sex.
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nah, I'm done with her...

@ Dons: Its not about manning up, just dont wanna hurt her, but I guess its best to call her, not waste to much time around...
 
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DonS said:
Repeat after me: Telling my GF that I don't want to see her anymore will hurt her feelings, but lieing to her and cheating on her and dragging out the break-up will hurt her feelings 500 times more.

Break up with her like a real man; with honesty. You'll feel better about yourself and she'll still hate you, but at least she'll respect you for not being like every other man who is a spineless wimp who is too afraid of her to tell her the truth.
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5 mins after i posted that it wasent about manning up I called, guess swift pain is better than long pain

She's still coming over, wants to talk blabla, not gonna keep it long, she wasent pissed and she felt it coming somehow...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Metaphysical said:
so did u bone the other girl last nite or what happened?
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She had her period, but she was lying next to me with only panties on. :whistle: my hands all touchy, she had one very hot body :eek:, best piece of ass ive ever felt (and I've felt quite alot)... she already text msged me for tonight to meet up (her period is prolly over...)

Bah i know her 3 days and I was already in her bed, if it wasen't for her period, we definatly had sex... It's all to much routine and too easy atm :mad:, maybe i should aim higher :confused:
 
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Credos said:
It's all to much routine and too easy atm :mad:, maybe i should aim higher :confused:
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....uhhh... are you in this for the challenge or for the pvssy???

I for one expect the ROUTINE to be EASY... I want sex and so do they, Cut the bullsh!t - its time to fvck!!!
 
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Randallpink83 said:
....uhhh... are you in this for the challenge or for the pvssy???

I for one expect the ROUTINE to be EASY... I want sex and so do they, Cut the bullsh!t - its time to fvck!!!
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pvssy :yes:
challange is just a fun addition to it :whistle:,anyway i should aim for beter looking women anyway if I'm thinking like this... maybe the routine stays as easy as it is, and i get better looking women :up:
 
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