"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ok I'm in a major dilemma now...

So i have to dump the GF, but I don't wanna hurt her ofcourse. The problem is she's 50 miles away from me, don't have a car and I got a date tonight.

Yesterday I called one of the girls i met last week, she and her best friend with her BF came. The guy tells me she's been wanking about me since thursday (i knew her since wednesday), the party goes on, we all get a little tipsy and I kiss-closed her. Tonight she's coming to my place to watch a movie. Chances I'm getting laid tonight are extremly high... (depending on if she's a virgin or not).

Now I don't know what to do with my gf... she's comming over to my place tomorow. Now it would be a major pain to dump her then cause she just sat about an hour on the train just to get dumped right.
Do I call her to break up?
Do I wait till this weekend, call her friday and tell her we gotta talk, then meet up and tell her I'm not fully into us anymore, and that I'm in to much doubt to go on...
Or do I tell her tomorow which IMO is the worst solution...

(normally i would post in my fr thread but chances of getting a swift response are a bit to low...)
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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why are you breaking up with her? Just because you are getting with another chick tonight? Since you don't mind losing your GF anyhow, but you still don't want to hurt her... why not keep her around and just associate the relationship differently - just hang with her sometimes - have sex.


but if it were me, maybe I would call and tell her that I cant hang out tomorrow that something came up.. then I would ignore her calls or whatever for a few days.. so she starts realizing something is up. She can actually start mentally preparing that something is wrong... Then I would throw a BIG BAG of Flaming SH1T at her and Yell "WEE ARE DONNEEE!!". Do this in a car speeding past her house, hopefully her family witnesses it.
 
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Randallpink83 said:
why are you breaking up with her? Just because you are getting with another chick tonight? Since you don't mind losing your GF anyhow, but you still don't want to hurt her... why not keep her around and just associate the relationship differently - just hang with her sometimes - have sex.
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nah, I'm done with her...

@ Dons: Its not about manning up, just dont wanna hurt her, but I guess its best to call her, not waste to much time around...
 
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DonS said:
Repeat after me: Telling my GF that I don't want to see her anymore will hurt her feelings, but lieing to her and cheating on her and dragging out the break-up will hurt her feelings 500 times more.

Break up with her like a real man; with honesty. You'll feel better about yourself and she'll still hate you, but at least she'll respect you for not being like every other man who is a spineless wimp who is too afraid of her to tell her the truth.
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5 mins after i posted that it wasent about manning up I called, guess swift pain is better than long pain

She's still coming over, wants to talk blabla, not gonna keep it long, she wasent pissed and she felt it coming somehow...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Metaphysical said:
so did u bone the other girl last nite or what happened?
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She had her period, but she was lying next to me with only panties on. :whistle: my hands all touchy, she had one very hot body :eek:, best piece of ass ive ever felt (and I've felt quite alot)... she already text msged me for tonight to meet up (her period is prolly over...)

Bah i know her 3 days and I was already in her bed, if it wasen't for her period, we definatly had sex... It's all to much routine and too easy atm :mad:, maybe i should aim higher :confused:
 
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Credos said:
It's all to much routine and too easy atm :mad:, maybe i should aim higher :confused:
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....uhhh... are you in this for the challenge or for the pvssy???

I for one expect the ROUTINE to be EASY... I want sex and so do they, Cut the bullsh!t - its time to fvck!!!
 
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Randallpink83 said:
....uhhh... are you in this for the challenge or for the pvssy???

I for one expect the ROUTINE to be EASY... I want sex and so do they, Cut the bullsh!t - its time to fvck!!!
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pvssy :yes:
challange is just a fun addition to it :whistle:,anyway i should aim for beter looking women anyway if I'm thinking like this... maybe the routine stays as easy as it is, and i get better looking women :up:
 
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