"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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need feedback....guy making moves on my girlfriend

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Interesting update -

the guy called to apologize. He said his actions were "way out of line" and that he wants " no hard feelings ". I didnt threaten him, just gave HIM a respect talk and told him not to do it again. Then that I appreciate him calling.

At least he isnt a COMPLETE ****-head
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If he took the time to call, then he probably did realize how out of line he was. If he didn't, I would say talk to him and explain to him where you were coming from, and if he doesn't respond to that and further continues with the flirting, beatdown.
 
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I'm with Jester, which is an interesting side to take for someone who has been in a LTR for over 7 months. If she disrespects you, **** her off... simple.

This is about you, **** your popularity. You might be cooler with a gf but you will be happier without one that is ****ing you over.

95% (if not more) of girls are ****ed as a cheap wh0res cun+ when it comes to relationships.

Im interested though jester, what do you believe if the girl is flirting while extremely intoxicated.
 
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Originally posted by Sammo
I'm with Jester, which is an interesting side to take for someone who has been in a LTR for over 7 months. If she disrespects you, **** her off... simple.

This is about you, **** your popularity. You might be cooler with a gf but you will be happier without one that is ****ing you over.

95% (if not more) of girls are ****ed as a cheap wh0res cun+ when it comes to relationships.

Im interested though jester, what do you believe if the girl is flirting while extremely intoxicated.
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Doesnt matter. I dont want a girl who gets extremely intoxicated in the first place. Any intoxication less than that and you still know what youre doing.

her inhibitions may be lowered, so in a sense you are getting a view of her true self. The self anyone with the knowledge of this website could make come out without the use of alcohol or drugs.

So it doesnt matter. The action is what matters. If it is done, then a reaction must take place which is to dump her.
 
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