"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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need feedback....guy making moves on my girlfriend

Serg897

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Interesting update -

the guy called to apologize. He said his actions were "way out of line" and that he wants " no hard feelings ". I didnt threaten him, just gave HIM a respect talk and told him not to do it again. Then that I appreciate him calling.

At least he isnt a COMPLETE ****-head
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If he took the time to call, then he probably did realize how out of line he was. If he didn't, I would say talk to him and explain to him where you were coming from, and if he doesn't respond to that and further continues with the flirting, beatdown.
 

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I'm with Jester, which is an interesting side to take for someone who has been in a LTR for over 7 months. If she disrespects you, **** her off... simple.

This is about you, **** your popularity. You might be cooler with a gf but you will be happier without one that is ****ing you over.

95% (if not more) of girls are ****ed as a cheap wh0res cun+ when it comes to relationships.

Im interested though jester, what do you believe if the girl is flirting while extremely intoxicated.
 

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Originally posted by Sammo
I'm with Jester, which is an interesting side to take for someone who has been in a LTR for over 7 months. If she disrespects you, **** her off... simple.

This is about you, **** your popularity. You might be cooler with a gf but you will be happier without one that is ****ing you over.

95% (if not more) of girls are ****ed as a cheap wh0res cun+ when it comes to relationships.

Im interested though jester, what do you believe if the girl is flirting while extremely intoxicated.
Doesnt matter. I dont want a girl who gets extremely intoxicated in the first place. Any intoxication less than that and you still know what youre doing.

her inhibitions may be lowered, so in a sense you are getting a view of her true self. The self anyone with the knowledge of this website could make come out without the use of alcohol or drugs.

So it doesnt matter. The action is what matters. If it is done, then a reaction must take place which is to dump her.
 
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