"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey Guys, I am a newbie to this forum and need advice on an issue I've been dealing with. From what females tell me, I'm an attractive guy. When the right time presents it, I have no problems talking to females and getting their numbers. The problem I'm having is that when I do end up calling them, they seem disinterested. I would talk to them (fluff talk) for a minute or so before they would me that they had to go and that they would call me back. They never call back. What's the deal? If they were not interested, why don't they just tell me they a man or even give me a fake number if anything. I'm confused. Thanks for your advices.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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women are flakey when it comes to that. They might be interested at that moment and they when you actually call they realize that they dont want to be bothered with you on that level. I usually do things 50/50. Sometimes I get the number and sometimes I give mine out. If I get the number I keep the conversation short and sweet. No long drawn out conversations.
Keep it light and simple. If they are hurrying to get off the phone with you either they arent worth your time or you're saying something or doing something that is boring them or dropping their interest level.


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I wait usually 2 - 4 days before I call them.
 
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