"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GrassHoppa

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Hey Guys, I am a newbie to this forum and need advice on an issue I've been dealing with. From what females tell me, I'm an attractive guy. When the right time presents it, I have no problems talking to females and getting their numbers. The problem I'm having is that when I do end up calling them, they seem disinterested. I would talk to them (fluff talk) for a minute or so before they would me that they had to go and that they would call me back. They never call back. What's the deal? If they were not interested, why don't they just tell me they a man or even give me a fake number if anything. I'm confused. Thanks for your advices.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SeldomSeen

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RE:

women are flakey when it comes to that. They might be interested at that moment and they when you actually call they realize that they dont want to be bothered with you on that level. I usually do things 50/50. Sometimes I get the number and sometimes I give mine out. If I get the number I keep the conversation short and sweet. No long drawn out conversations.
Keep it light and simple. If they are hurrying to get off the phone with you either they arent worth your time or you're saying something or doing something that is boring them or dropping their interest level.


Peace
 

GrassHoppa

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I wait usually 2 - 4 days before I call them.
 
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