"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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need dance insight from more experienced

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Hi, i'm a 20 year old college student. I know i should be posting in the high school forum, however I want someone who can tell me what kind of dance i should take that would help me in common dance situations. I can't dance to save my life. I would truly love to be able to dance at clubs, and weddings and actually look like i know what i'm doing. ...................

My question is what kind of dance lessons should i be taking to improve me in these two dance situations?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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learn to dance like a rockstar then you will be kicking ass on the dance floor.
 
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The most important thing is to move in time with the music.

Practice at home and learn a few, simple movements which can be repeated on the dance floor. Repetition will be your friend - you don't need to come up with something new every 2 seconds to look like a good dancer. oh yeah, and don't flail around to much, just keep it controlled.

p.s Even if you think you're a bad dancer, that is no reason not to hit the dance floor. Sure, its better if you know what you're doing but having the confidence to just get up and do SOMETHING is far better than standing around on "death row".
 
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Free your mind and your ass will follow.

More constructively, follow the beat and don't try to run before you can (moon) walk.
 
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RE:

take a hiphop class and a salsa class.


I do mainly funk styles of dancing ie popping etc and its enough to get me attention in the clubs where chicks stop and watch. But I can also dance to House, and other forms of music. If you cant take any classes order videos.

YOu can order some videos from here

Hiphop dance videos
 

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definitely take a few salsa classes. great way to meet girls, and it's just really fun.
 
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