"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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need dance insight from more experienced

drdrew

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Hi, i'm a 20 year old college student. I know i should be posting in the high school forum, however I want someone who can tell me what kind of dance i should take that would help me in common dance situations. I can't dance to save my life. I would truly love to be able to dance at clubs, and weddings and actually look like i know what i'm doing. ...................

My question is what kind of dance lessons should i be taking to improve me in these two dance situations?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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JesterX

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learn to dance like a rockstar then you will be kicking ass on the dance floor.
 

The Juan and only

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The most important thing is to move in time with the music.

Practice at home and learn a few, simple movements which can be repeated on the dance floor. Repetition will be your friend - you don't need to come up with something new every 2 seconds to look like a good dancer. oh yeah, and don't flail around to much, just keep it controlled.

p.s Even if you think you're a bad dancer, that is no reason not to hit the dance floor. Sure, its better if you know what you're doing but having the confidence to just get up and do SOMETHING is far better than standing around on "death row".
 

Nighthawk

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Free your mind and your ass will follow.

More constructively, follow the beat and don't try to run before you can (moon) walk.
 

SeldomSeen

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RE:

take a hiphop class and a salsa class.


I do mainly funk styles of dancing ie popping etc and its enough to get me attention in the clubs where chicks stop and watch. But I can also dance to House, and other forms of music. If you cant take any classes order videos.

YOu can order some videos from here

Hiphop dance videos
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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smoke city

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definitely take a few salsa classes. great way to meet girls, and it's just really fun.
 
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