"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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need dance insight from more experienced

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Hi, i'm a 20 year old college student. I know i should be posting in the high school forum, however I want someone who can tell me what kind of dance i should take that would help me in common dance situations. I can't dance to save my life. I would truly love to be able to dance at clubs, and weddings and actually look like i know what i'm doing. ...................

My question is what kind of dance lessons should i be taking to improve me in these two dance situations?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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learn to dance like a rockstar then you will be kicking ass on the dance floor.
 
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The most important thing is to move in time with the music.

Practice at home and learn a few, simple movements which can be repeated on the dance floor. Repetition will be your friend - you don't need to come up with something new every 2 seconds to look like a good dancer. oh yeah, and don't flail around to much, just keep it controlled.

p.s Even if you think you're a bad dancer, that is no reason not to hit the dance floor. Sure, its better if you know what you're doing but having the confidence to just get up and do SOMETHING is far better than standing around on "death row".
 
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Free your mind and your ass will follow.

More constructively, follow the beat and don't try to run before you can (moon) walk.
 
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RE:

take a hiphop class and a salsa class.


I do mainly funk styles of dancing ie popping etc and its enough to get me attention in the clubs where chicks stop and watch. But I can also dance to House, and other forms of music. If you cant take any classes order videos.

YOu can order some videos from here

Hiphop dance videos
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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definitely take a few salsa classes. great way to meet girls, and it's just really fun.
 
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