"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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need big help quick

callowhill

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need help girl told me to call her back at eleven o clock soon as i called.

is she trying to test me or something what should i do
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Phyzzle

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Doesn't matter what you do. She's not interested.

When you called, she had absolutely no time to talk on the phone for 5 seconds. So how did she did have time to answer it?

You can try calling at 11, and don't worry about failing a test or anything, because if she doesn't answer, there was nothing to lose.
 

Jay Jay

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Call at 11.

Maybe its a test. Maybe she is fobbing you off. Maybe she wants to be alone so she wants to have phone sex with you. Who knows. The chances are she was just in the middle of something.

JJ
 
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