"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need advise online Dating

Cazam

Don Juan
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Hey guys,
I got a Problem.
Since i got Tinder gold i get a lot of likes and matches (around 1500 last 3 weeks).
That kinda tells me i look attractive at least on the pics.
Problem is i am only 5'6 and i dont know if i should put it in my bio.
If i put it i probobly wont get any likes and it looks like i am not comfortable with my hight.
If i dont put it i am kinda terrified making a date and meeting them just to see the girl is way taler and even if they arent they probobly wear heels.
So should i tell them before the Date?
But that would also display to them that i have a problem with it and so no self confidence.

Its a pitty i dont know what to do.
Any suggestions?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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marvinlfloresq

Don Juan
Joined
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Hey guys,
I got a Problem.
Since i got Tinder gold i get a lot of likes and matches (around 1500 last 3 weeks).
That kinda tells me i look attractive at least on the pics.
Problem is i am only 5'6 and i dont know if i should put it in my bio.
If i put it i probobly wont get any likes and it looks like i am not comfortable with my hight.
If i dont put it i am kinda terrified making a date and meeting them just to see the girl is way taler and even if they arent they probobly wear heels.
So should i tell them before the Date?
But that would also display to them that i have a problem with it and so no self confidence.

Its a pitty i dont know what to do.
Any suggestions?
Is it necessary to put it on the app, bio, platform? If so, do it. Done.

If its not mandatory, still put it. Done.
Its not a big deal. Attraction is not a choice.
 
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