"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Need advise online Dating

Cazam

Don Juan
Joined
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Hey guys,
I got a Problem.
Since i got Tinder gold i get a lot of likes and matches (around 1500 last 3 weeks).
That kinda tells me i look attractive at least on the pics.
Problem is i am only 5'6 and i dont know if i should put it in my bio.
If i put it i probobly wont get any likes and it looks like i am not comfortable with my hight.
If i dont put it i am kinda terrified making a date and meeting them just to see the girl is way taler and even if they arent they probobly wear heels.
So should i tell them before the Date?
But that would also display to them that i have a problem with it and so no self confidence.

Its a pitty i dont know what to do.
Any suggestions?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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marvinlfloresq

Don Juan
Joined
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Messages
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Hey guys,
I got a Problem.
Since i got Tinder gold i get a lot of likes and matches (around 1500 last 3 weeks).
That kinda tells me i look attractive at least on the pics.
Problem is i am only 5'6 and i dont know if i should put it in my bio.
If i put it i probobly wont get any likes and it looks like i am not comfortable with my hight.
If i dont put it i am kinda terrified making a date and meeting them just to see the girl is way taler and even if they arent they probobly wear heels.
So should i tell them before the Date?
But that would also display to them that i have a problem with it and so no self confidence.

Its a pitty i dont know what to do.
Any suggestions?
Is it necessary to put it on the app, bio, platform? If so, do it. Done.

If its not mandatory, still put it. Done.
Its not a big deal. Attraction is not a choice.
 
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