"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Need Advice

B

beanerdawg

New Member
Joined
Aug 28, 2012
Messages
2
Reaction score
0
Been seeing this girl for about a month now. Everything has been great. Usually seeing each other 2-3 times a week. We had planned something for tonight and last night at 9PM she writes.

HER:So I know we said we would hang tomorrow,but if you're too tired and stuff I totally understand if you can't make it. You had a full weekend and a busy day and prob need your relaxation time.

(3 minutes later)

HER: And this isnt a weird girl test lol (BULL#####)

my first step was to NOT write back last night. I was thinking about writing back with "No worries. It's a normal day for me. Maybe we'll meet up later this week." That shows her I was down for hanging out, and I'll probably be finding something else to do. If she says, let's still do something, I'll probably tell her I already made plans. Thoughts?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

N

NorwegianDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 8, 2010
Messages
2,553
Reaction score
83
Why is it more important to maintain your value and avoiding rejection than to meet up with her?

Just find out what you choose to roll with and do it.
 
D

Dante1a

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 17, 2005
Messages
130
Reaction score
35
I could be wrong, but if you want to hang with her, than you should. There's nothing wrong with saying that you still are planning on hanging out.

Am I wrong on this guys? (I do it all the time and never have problems.)
 
D

Droz88

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 19, 2012
Messages
132
Reaction score
2
Dante1a said:
I could be wrong, but if you want to hang with her, than you should. There's nothing wrong with saying that you still are planning on hanging out.

Am I wrong on this guys? (I do it all the time and never have problems.)
Click to expand...
No I don't think you're wrong. You can say you still want to hang out but you have to do it in a tactuful way (a way where you're coming from a position of power and strength). Him responding "Yes I still want to hang out" would be a bit different that saying "Don't worry about it. Be here at 7 tomorrow". Do you see the difference there?
 
O

omega05

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 18, 2009
Messages
654
Reaction score
10
Location
chicago
Droz88 said:
No I don't think you're wrong. You can say you still want to hang out but you have to do it in a tactuful way (a way where you're coming from a position of power and strength). Him responding "Yes I still want to hang out" would be a bit different that saying "Don't worry about it. Be here at 7 tomorrow". Do you see the difference there?
Click to expand...
I see the difference and like the second method. But I dont understand why a girl would text something like what is in the OP in the first place
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top