"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey guys :cool: ,
Am new to the pick up game and to the forum. Wondering if any of you can help me out in this particular situation. Hot chick at work, I have successfully busted her balls couple fo times... As a result she knows that I am attracted to her. Last couple of days she tries to not to look at me, shows unwelcome bodylanguage during the day, but at the end of the day, if she sees me, she tries to start a conversation...Am not sure what is going on here. is this kind of push pull from her side...? Can anyone see through her game here, please advice.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Normally, you should just ask her out. You won't waste time trying to figure out if she likes you. She probably has made her decision one way or the other already :)

Because you are co-workers, though, it could be awkward if she rejected you and you might not enjoy yourself at work, which is important as well. In that case I would ask her out on a casual date. But you seriously better served asking her out than looking around for IOI's.
 
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