"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys :cool: ,
Am new to the pick up game and to the forum. Wondering if any of you can help me out in this particular situation. Hot chick at work, I have successfully busted her balls couple fo times... As a result she knows that I am attracted to her. Last couple of days she tries to not to look at me, shows unwelcome bodylanguage during the day, but at the end of the day, if she sees me, she tries to start a conversation...Am not sure what is going on here. is this kind of push pull from her side...? Can anyone see through her game here, please advice.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Normally, you should just ask her out. You won't waste time trying to figure out if she likes you. She probably has made her decision one way or the other already :)

Because you are co-workers, though, it could be awkward if she rejected you and you might not enjoy yourself at work, which is important as well. In that case I would ask her out on a casual date. But you seriously better served asking her out than looking around for IOI's.
 
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