"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hello,
I need advices about a girl I really like but I am not sure about her feelings.
I met her 3 months ago and began to date her a bit later. We had three diners together during this period until now and I think she likes me as well. But the last time it was very difficult to make her come as she pretended to be very busy and always reported the lunch to the next week. She finally came and was a bit different than the way I used to know her until then. She asked me if I had a girlfriend and seemed very interested by my answer. She also proposed me to make a trip with her in her native country as soon as our studies will be over. And finally she learned me how to say I love you in her native language whereas I did not ask her this.
But at the end of our date as I asked her when I will see her again she did not give me a clear answer, just a "it depends" and I think I will have to fight again to arrange our next date.
Do you think it really worths to go on with this relationship? This would be a very hard choice as she is very important to me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There is no 'relationship' here.
You're two people who are in some sort of awkward involvement.
She is not that interested in you, since she is not making you a priority.
You appear not to be escalating the interactions physically, which is sending you into the friend zone. So she is acting hot and cold to you because there's no sexual chemistry going on.
Dont follow a woman.
Dont waste time 'looking for clues' or waiting for the 'right time'.

Read the DJ bible and the Book of Pook.
Read up on some David Deangelo stuff too.
I also recommend reading up on Real Social Dynamics stuff too.
Their Blueprint Decoded is very good.
Also look into Dr. Paul Dobransky's stuff.
Get your self informed before getting too involved in the forum.
Take responsibilty for informing yourself on your own and then if you need more elaboration, ask here.
But make sure you're familiar with the subject for now.
You've got a lot of shaming, embarasment, timidness, insecurity, and other non honoring beliefs, and you need to get informed before you can make a strong change to reprogram yourself.
 
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Mendez, listen to Interceptor.

But read David D's stuff first because I know the other stuff he mentioned is a little to advance for you a this point in stage.

Just remember though, an instruction booklet will tell you step by step of how to assemble something but it won't assemble it for you.
 
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