"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok, this girl i used to like does nto like me and she won't even talk to me now. i thought about it alot over the weekend and everyone was right, she is a slut, hehe.

there is one girl that i kinda like, she seems nice, and i'm sure i'll bump into someone else at the big party i'm having. but i'm not very smooth...

i need tips, like first moves, what to say, if i like soemone, what do i do? basically i need some advice when it comes to the first move, thanks in advance!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You know what your problem is? You LIKE them too much. So you are basically putting them on a pedastool.. even if you think you aren't. You probably came off to strong. Don't get all excited and horny when some girls seems to be interested in you. Don't mess it up and just play it cool. Don't think about it too much. Try taking a break from these girls and go flirt with others. It will in turn help your game with the original girls anyway.

Try to avoid the oneitis stuff, you will just get hurt in the end.

If you get rejected just bounce back up and move on. If this girl doesn't talk you, she isnt interested, so let her go.
 
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