"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ok, this girl i used to like does nto like me and she won't even talk to me now. i thought about it alot over the weekend and everyone was right, she is a slut, hehe.

there is one girl that i kinda like, she seems nice, and i'm sure i'll bump into someone else at the big party i'm having. but i'm not very smooth...

i need tips, like first moves, what to say, if i like soemone, what do i do? basically i need some advice when it comes to the first move, thanks in advance!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You know what your problem is? You LIKE them too much. So you are basically putting them on a pedastool.. even if you think you aren't. You probably came off to strong. Don't get all excited and horny when some girls seems to be interested in you. Don't mess it up and just play it cool. Don't think about it too much. Try taking a break from these girls and go flirt with others. It will in turn help your game with the original girls anyway.

Try to avoid the oneitis stuff, you will just get hurt in the end.

If you get rejected just bounce back up and move on. If this girl doesn't talk you, she isnt interested, so let her go.
 
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