LeroyJenkins
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Need some help here guys.
I got this girl who is a friend of mine, and we suddenly started to talk to one another. And after awhile, we would talk and talk and I told her I had feelings for her and she told me she also had them. After awhile, I fell in love with her and she also did the same but the only bad thing is that she's engaged to someone. She tells me she's in love with me and and only loves the other guy because she wouldn't have been with him if she wasn't. But not as far as being in love with him. They always fight and argue and whatnot but her problem is that she'll always keep her word no matter what. Meaning sacrificing what we have. They've been engaged the last 2 years... to make a long story short, she can't leave him unless she has a reason to. Which is either him cheating or him ending it. I talk to her a lot every night and from what I feel, she's obligated to be with him because of the ring. She tells me countless times that she's hurting herself by talking to me so the spark is there. my problem is, how to get rid of this guy because it's obviously bad for her to be with someone she's not fully "intuned" with like me. I feel that she's the one, we want to do the same things, at the same time at the same pace at the same place whereas the other guy's wants are different from her and etc.
so help me out chums.
I got this girl who is a friend of mine, and we suddenly started to talk to one another. And after awhile, we would talk and talk and I told her I had feelings for her and she told me she also had them. After awhile, I fell in love with her and she also did the same but the only bad thing is that she's engaged to someone. She tells me she's in love with me and and only loves the other guy because she wouldn't have been with him if she wasn't. But not as far as being in love with him. They always fight and argue and whatnot but her problem is that she'll always keep her word no matter what. Meaning sacrificing what we have. They've been engaged the last 2 years... to make a long story short, she can't leave him unless she has a reason to. Which is either him cheating or him ending it. I talk to her a lot every night and from what I feel, she's obligated to be with him because of the ring. She tells me countless times that she's hurting herself by talking to me so the spark is there. my problem is, how to get rid of this guy because it's obviously bad for her to be with someone she's not fully "intuned" with like me. I feel that she's the one, we want to do the same things, at the same time at the same pace at the same place whereas the other guy's wants are different from her and etc.
so help me out chums.