Hey guys, I have an interesting little situation here to share and I need some advice about it.
I'm kind of confused about a girl, my classmate. We're 17. I've known her well since last year and she says I'm the only guy she tells some personal stuff. And I do like her. But I'm not her gay friend, we have been flerting a lot lately.
Then, Tuesday, two weeks ago, we had lunch together and had some laughts. When we finished, we decided to miss some afternoon classes to go to the school library so we could study to a physics test. We stayed there for like 2 hours, talking about not only physics but about her life too, and she was sending me some positive signs. Then we went to the break and then back to the library. Then it got dark, the library closed, almost nobody was at the school and we started to walk looking for a room. We ended up getting the director's room...And there we was, just the two of us, I was paying much atention while she was teaching me, mantaining strong eye contact.
And, since that day, I've been having some feelings for her, but it's ok, still not a problem. And then, this very Monday, a party is announced! (a high school 3rd year party), scheduled to saturday 27th, and I thought: I want to kiss her in this party, and let's see what happens. So a few minutes later I sugested her to share a tequila with me, and she accepted. But after that, we'be been looking to each other differently. In the first day(Tuesday) it was more intense, but then yesterday and today she didn't look at me once, and worse, she was trying to make me jealous flerting ridiculously hard with my best friend in front of me. I feel very distant from her now, completely different from a few days ago.
What the hell happened?? Man..I thought women were complicated but that is chaos!
What should I do? If someone has a good advice I would really appreciate it.
I'm kind of confused about a girl, my classmate. We're 17. I've known her well since last year and she says I'm the only guy she tells some personal stuff. And I do like her. But I'm not her gay friend, we have been flerting a lot lately.
Then, Tuesday, two weeks ago, we had lunch together and had some laughts. When we finished, we decided to miss some afternoon classes to go to the school library so we could study to a physics test. We stayed there for like 2 hours, talking about not only physics but about her life too, and she was sending me some positive signs. Then we went to the break and then back to the library. Then it got dark, the library closed, almost nobody was at the school and we started to walk looking for a room. We ended up getting the director's room...And there we was, just the two of us, I was paying much atention while she was teaching me, mantaining strong eye contact.
And, since that day, I've been having some feelings for her, but it's ok, still not a problem. And then, this very Monday, a party is announced! (a high school 3rd year party), scheduled to saturday 27th, and I thought: I want to kiss her in this party, and let's see what happens. So a few minutes later I sugested her to share a tequila with me, and she accepted. But after that, we'be been looking to each other differently. In the first day(Tuesday) it was more intense, but then yesterday and today she didn't look at me once, and worse, she was trying to make me jealous flerting ridiculously hard with my best friend in front of me. I feel very distant from her now, completely different from a few days ago.
What the hell happened?? Man..I thought women were complicated but that is chaos!
What should I do? If someone has a good advice I would really appreciate it.