"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need advice: Should i pursue?

dmoney

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hey guys need you advice on something... i was cleaning my room and came across my senior yearbook (i graduated high school last year) and i was reading all the comments and i saw this one of this girl saying that she hopes we keep in touch (i never read this). So i remember that she requested me on facebook a few months back and i accepted. I didn't think much of it.

So i messaged her yesterday and saying "wats up having talked to you ina while? what school do you go to" she replies back and says "hey wassup i know its been 4ever lol" she then told me she just transferred to a school that is close to mine. I messaged her back and said " oh snap you're going to the party school huh? i haven't talked to anyone from our high school. we should hang out sometime" she replies me back and says "o i didnt know it was a party school lol. but yea hit me up sometime (gives her number)"

So know i was wondering is this just her being friendly and giving her number to me and hoping that i never call? or is she somewhat interested and wants me to call?

So gentlemen... what should my next step be? should i call or text and set a date to hang out with her? should it be us to alone or should i tell her to invite other people? and last but not least where should we go?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dmoney

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lol hahaha thanks so call her up? so i'll call her up on wednesday or something. i was thinking going to dinner or something... get some alcohol if possible and going from there. my other option is inviting her to go clubbing.
 

Prodigy746

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hack ya dood. She looks like shes interested. Call her up and take her out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Dannyrt34

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DO NOT GO CLUBBING! Just my opinion. It's been so long since you talked to her and you want to bring her to a place where you can't hear the person next to you screaming in your ear?

I always like the more laid back bars for a first date, maybe a walk down the boardwalk.
 

Kevin Feng

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You’re in the best possible situation to meet women: college. Pick up in college, in my personal opinion, is WAYYY easier than pick up in the real world. Here’s the thing, at least in my experience in college, it’s going to be way more weird to go on a date with a girl rather than just invite her out to party, get her hammered and go from there.

College is a place to hook-up, not go on formal dates, I mean you can, but I certainly don’t’ think it’s the most efficient route to seal the deal.

Simple as that, find a good bumpin party to go to, invite some cool friends out to social proof yourself and then bring her along. If she doesn’t know anyone, she’ll be clinging onto you the entire night. I’ve closed the deal with a few girls like this. I mean lets be real, she’s clinging on to you, she’s got a few drinks in her, and you’re totally social proofed, if that doesn’t make it easy enough, than I’m at a loss.

Be sure to work in some solid comfort too, I think you’ll find this of help:

http://theasianplayboy.blogspot.com/2005/06/importance-of-vulnerability-story.html

So there you go, hope that helps.

-Kevin
 
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