"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonGorgon said:
^^LOL you just said you hope she is pregnant????????....Hell no then the child will be born to a psychotic mom and a dad who doe not want it and who hates it mom... what a way to start life... I am not having any kids so I only have sex with women who believe in and will have abortions.
LOL!!

Typo.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lookyoung said:
Pigs fly also lol. No fvcking way. I love kids and would love to have some one day but not to a cvnt that I am not that attracted too or someone who lives 800 miles away and is a psycho at that no fvcking way. I would only want kids in the traditonal way only which is marriage.
Explanation given. Now we can move on.
 

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This is a wakeup to all of us who participate in risky acts, with risky women.

Tonight I had a HB8 bisexual girl over. We made out and all that, this was our first meet. I'm damn glad I didn't sink my battelship in her. She seems all right and all, but I probably would have panicked while reading this thread if I had just done the dirty.

In any event, sometimes it makes me think I should not stray from my LTR who at least is a girl I want to have kids with one day.
 

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Ricky said:
This is a wakeup to all of us who participate in risky acts, with risky women.

Tonight I had a HB8 bisexual girl over. We made out and all that, this was our first meet. I'm damn glad I didn't sink my battelship in her. She seems all right and all, but I probably would have panicked while reading this thread if I had just done the dirty.

In any event, sometimes it makes me think I should not stray from my LTR who at least is a girl I want to have kids with one day.
Yeah man tell me about it. I fvcking freaked out big time. The girl has not called me thank God. So I am pretty sure it was a hoax, but she sure scared the sh1t out of me. I will be more careful from now on.
 

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lookyoung said:
Yeah man tell me about it. I fvcking freaked out big time. The girl has not called me thank God. So I am pretty sure it was a hoax, but she sure scared the sh1t out of me. I will be more careful from now on.
Lesson learned huh Lookyoung?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lesson learned huh Lookyoung?

I learned a lesson and than some. I know I am not out of the woods yet but I think its safe to say I probably dodged a bullet.
 

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In case I didn't say so before, thank you for this thread. This will most certainly not be the last time a vindictive woman tries something like this in the future. Hopefully one or more brothers have learned a lesson also.

Thanks brother.
 

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One challenge or common trap I have fallen into and I think many people that start having a lot of success is to start banging tons of girls based on their looks not their emotional stability.

We get the ability to get more and more girls into bed and enjoy it. In my case I was a late bloomer. Once I started having success I liked the fact that there were alot of girls I could get into bed quickly.

I think the natural progression after this, which I'm not always at, is to get more and more selective and I don't just mean looks, because there are tons of girls that are smoking hot, but fACKING crazy that are dangerous to play with due to drama, potential disease, risk of pregnancy.

But that might mean turning down some of the same night lays from time to time. Something that can be a bit hard to do. The bad part is quite frankly, so many women act alike it can be hard to tell the ones that are emotionally unstable from the stable ones!

Best wishes for you lookyoung. **** like this makes me take a short break from the game to reevaluate things.

We've all been there so we hope the best for you bro. I still wonder if I don't have a little one out there waiting one day for some college tuition money!
 

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Regarding the "get a test" advice, fwiw a girl I know had her baby daddy push her into getting a test done. When it came back positive, the state of Illinois gave the girl a deadbeat dad form. Just a signature on her part initiated legal action against him to collect child support, essentially sicking the state on him. Ironically, none of this would have happened to him had he not pushed for that test, or at least it would have been much harder to get sued for support. Now the state is after him, certified paternity test results in hand. He moved himself to the front of the line among the state's deadbeat dads.

So, her disappearing is not the worst thing that can happen to you. If this happens, it's a great time to start saving your money. Take that 500 bucks or so a month that you would have to spend on child support and save it or invest it conservatively. Then you will always have the money to pay if she shows up with a giant bill for back child support.
 
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