"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Explanation given. Now we can move on.lookyoung said:
Tonight I had a HB8 bisexual girl over. We made out and all that, this was our first meet. I'm damn glad I didn't sink my battelship in her. She seems all right and all, but I probably would have panicked while reading this thread if I had just done the dirty.
In any event, sometimes it makes me think I should not stray from my LTR who at least is a girl I want to have kids with one day.
Yeah man tell me about it. I fvcking freaked out big time. The girl has not called me thank God. So I am pretty sure it was a hoax, but she sure scared the sh1t out of me. I will be more careful from now on.Ricky said:
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Lesson learned huh Lookyoung?lookyoung said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Thanks brother.
We get the ability to get more and more girls into bed and enjoy it. In my case I was a late bloomer. Once I started having success I liked the fact that there were alot of girls I could get into bed quickly.
I think the natural progression after this, which I'm not always at, is to get more and more selective and I don't just mean looks, because there are tons of girls that are smoking hot, but fACKING crazy that are dangerous to play with due to drama, potential disease, risk of pregnancy.
But that might mean turning down some of the same night lays from time to time. Something that can be a bit hard to do. The bad part is quite frankly, so many women act alike it can be hard to tell the ones that are emotionally unstable from the stable ones!
Best wishes for you lookyoung. **** like this makes me take a short break from the game to reevaluate things.
We've all been there so we hope the best for you bro. I still wonder if I don't have a little one out there waiting one day for some college tuition money!
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So, her disappearing is not the worst thing that can happen to you. If this happens, it's a great time to start saving your money. Take that 500 bucks or so a month that you would have to spend on child support and save it or invest it conservatively. Then you will always have the money to pay if she shows up with a giant bill for back child support.