"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Explanation given. Now we can move on.lookyoung said:
Tonight I had a HB8 bisexual girl over. We made out and all that, this was our first meet. I'm damn glad I didn't sink my battelship in her. She seems all right and all, but I probably would have panicked while reading this thread if I had just done the dirty.
In any event, sometimes it makes me think I should not stray from my LTR who at least is a girl I want to have kids with one day.
Yeah man tell me about it. I fvcking freaked out big time. The girl has not called me thank God. So I am pretty sure it was a hoax, but she sure scared the sh1t out of me. I will be more careful from now on.Ricky said:
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Lesson learned huh Lookyoung?lookyoung said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Thanks brother.
We get the ability to get more and more girls into bed and enjoy it. In my case I was a late bloomer. Once I started having success I liked the fact that there were alot of girls I could get into bed quickly.
I think the natural progression after this, which I'm not always at, is to get more and more selective and I don't just mean looks, because there are tons of girls that are smoking hot, but fACKING crazy that are dangerous to play with due to drama, potential disease, risk of pregnancy.
But that might mean turning down some of the same night lays from time to time. Something that can be a bit hard to do. The bad part is quite frankly, so many women act alike it can be hard to tell the ones that are emotionally unstable from the stable ones!
Best wishes for you lookyoung. **** like this makes me take a short break from the game to reevaluate things.
We've all been there so we hope the best for you bro. I still wonder if I don't have a little one out there waiting one day for some college tuition money!
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So, her disappearing is not the worst thing that can happen to you. If this happens, it's a great time to start saving your money. Take that 500 bucks or so a month that you would have to spend on child support and save it or invest it conservatively. Then you will always have the money to pay if she shows up with a giant bill for back child support.