"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need advice regarding attractive roommate.

bruceartest24

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I was into this girl at work asked her out she flaked.. still cordial to each other go out to lunch with her here and there. She has an attractive roommate who I talk to and she then tells me we should grab lunch on a few a occasions. Should I pursue the roommate? Have something coming up not sure who I should invite? What do you guys think.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MisterD

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Take the one who's showing more interest. If the girl you asked out flaked, and the roomate was the one who came to YOU and asked YOU out, I'd say she's more interested. Plus you get the added benefit of the original girl having to deal with it. Very few things are better than dating a girl who's not interested in you's friend. She has to hear how awesome you are, and she starts to second guess her initial opinion of you. Plus you said she's attractive. It's not like you're going out with her to spite the other girl. You have an attractive girl asking you out. Go for it.
 

idk575

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Don't date your roommate, that's like dating a co-worker, a definite no-no
 

horaholic

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idk575 said:
Don't date your roommate, that's like dating a co-worker, a definite no-no
He's not talking about HIS roomate. Try READING the post before replying.

Anyway, hell yeah. Go for it.
 
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