"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Need advice regarding attractive roommate.

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bruceartest24

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I was into this girl at work asked her out she flaked.. still cordial to each other go out to lunch with her here and there. She has an attractive roommate who I talk to and she then tells me we should grab lunch on a few a occasions. Should I pursue the roommate? Have something coming up not sure who I should invite? What do you guys think.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MisterD

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Take the one who's showing more interest. If the girl you asked out flaked, and the roomate was the one who came to YOU and asked YOU out, I'd say she's more interested. Plus you get the added benefit of the original girl having to deal with it. Very few things are better than dating a girl who's not interested in you's friend. She has to hear how awesome you are, and she starts to second guess her initial opinion of you. Plus you said she's attractive. It's not like you're going out with her to spite the other girl. You have an attractive girl asking you out. Go for it.
 
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Don't date your roommate, that's like dating a co-worker, a definite no-no
 
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idk575 said:
Don't date your roommate, that's like dating a co-worker, a definite no-no
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He's not talking about HIS roomate. Try READING the post before replying.

Anyway, hell yeah. Go for it.
 
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