hello fellow DJ's im not exactly hopeless with women but i have one problem that i just cant work out so would appreciate any feedback: ive known this girl since i was at school (not to speak too) and now she works at this local bar, and i got talking too her and i couldnt believe my luck she wanted my number! i mean you can imagine i couldnt stop stop smiling i was loving it, and i think because i was so keane, infact too keane, i was always txting her, i think it was because i liked her that much i was infactuated beyond the point of annoying her, even though she liked me in the first place i was killing the attraction for her. And then week by week went and it got worse, she started not replying to my txts, and eveytime i saw her at the bar she'd take less interest in me (body language wise) and i admit i was shy to speak to her i hadnt even called her on the phone because i couldnt verbally ' break the ice ' due to fear of messing up, and then it wasnt until last week after reading tips off sosuave by all you mature DJ's i realised where i was going wrong so i laid off her abit and started being my self more and last night i was in the bar with my pal and i just went up and started speaking to her for a good couple of hours with applying DJ trickery and i think she might be attracted again but because i messed up before taking all that time trying to get in her pants shes got a boyfriend now! so i think ive blown it! so please how do i actually make her realise im the one for her not her new boyfriend, there must be a DJ miracle way that when she tries to sleep at night she cant because im the only thing she can think of! please DJ's help!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
need advice plz
- Thread starter CJDJ
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
LOL - quit being so desperate. Use this as a learning experience, because you're not getting in her pants and you're not "the one for her."
Sorry, man. Just use this as a learning experience and next time don't text all the time. Call and set up a date. It's easy.
Sorry, man. Just use this as a learning experience and next time don't text all the time. Call and set up a date. It's easy.
Spookey
Don Juan
there isnt enough time to chase all the good chicks in the world, but this doesn't mean only go after one. i bet she has hot friends, pivot onto them!
more on, dont waste your time on her. yes it hurts because you wanted her, but wait a while, im sure you will find someone you want just as much, if not more.
move on. practice on other chicks. *maybe* come back and have another shot at her in a few years
more on, dont waste your time on her. yes it hurts because you wanted her, but wait a while, im sure you will find someone you want just as much, if not more.
there is no miracle drug all you can do is put forward your best self and hope she says yes. yes you can stack the deck by seducing her, but thats not something that comes overnight, you have to work on it.
move on. practice on other chicks. *maybe* come back and have another shot at her in a few years
brucevangeorge
Banned
fo shizzle da nizzle yo.
yo, yo, yo-yo.
Dude, read the DJ Bible. This is a very COMMON problem. The bible has your exact answer written by some of the best posters of sosuave history.
Read it and come back here if you have unresolved issues that are not covered.
yo, yo, yo-yo.
Dude, read the DJ Bible. This is a very COMMON problem. The bible has your exact answer written by some of the best posters of sosuave history.
Read it and come back here if you have unresolved issues that are not covered.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.