Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I should have done that. But I wasn't that interested. New twist. She invited me on a date but now I have to email her...WTF? She says her phone is screwed up. The date is in about a week. It's a trivia night so that should be fun. I feel like I am being analyzed. Talking with her. I have dated a few therapists and they were crazy. I see my therapist tomorrow and she is very interested in my sex life.A hint at what? If she is into S&M or if she wants to fvck? You could've simply followed up her statement with, "So you're not into S&M?" and see how she reacted
This is mind boggling. You admit that you're not that into her, she at best is lukewarm to you (that might be stretching it) and you're going on a 4th date with no sex/sexual advances? Come on man, this is an utter waste of time. Do something or get rid her.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Good advice.
Not really after puss. SHe is all tatted up, her ex husband and bf choices were extremely bad. Only reason I am going on this 4th date is it's a trivia night. I need to work on my escalation. Usually I have them in bed by the first or second date. Like I said my give a sh itter is turned off. I will talk to Low T doc and tell him my libido is low. See what he says. I'm done after 4th date anyway and no sex.
Check my post in the health forums in the who dares wins thread about libido/testosterone regarding this.
First date coffee, second dutch, she paid for. Steak third. Will dutch the rest.have only called to set up dates have ignored her.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
THIS..A good idea. Women have no defense against action. Be forward. Touch her. Read her body language when you do. And if you feel like kissing her, why not? If she moves her head away, then you know she's a NEXT
