Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Need advice on hot late 40's broad

Falcon Eye

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Hi guys, it's been a while. Here's the storey, Iv'e met this hot, very confident, self sufficient woman online. She's single and has a geat job.

Tells me she'd like some fun in her life; fun being sex. I like what I saw and what I heard. We emailed a lot, I resisted a bit as I'm involved with my 45 year old that I spoke about months ago. Some may recall.


Anyway we met for lunch, talked, and all went well. Looks like sex is in our future. She seems to have pulled back a little. Now she keeps a busy schedule and that could be it. I called her Saturday past and she tells me she's good to go for sex.

I'm trying my all not to act AFC with this woman and to try to be a challenge, but it hard as hell. I want her so much I can taste her.

She's a female DJ; no joking.

How to proceed? Any advice for bedding this woman?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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gunf1ghter

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Originally posted by Falcon Eye
I called her Saturday past and she tells me she's good to go for sex.
Hmm, you may have stumbled on to something...it never occurred to me to just ask a girl out for coffee and some sex.

As for you, you've won. Who cares why or how, just get in there and do it.
 

Falcon Eye

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Problem is I haven't won.

I haven't bedded this broad yet. I'm telling you she's a female DJ. Not always available, cuts things short on the phone and IM.

Truth is, I'm tempted everyday to call her. The brain knows what to do but the heart doesn't want to cooperate. I guess I just need someone to kick me in the pants so I don't go AFC and screw this all up.
 

stevera004

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Originally posted by Falcon Eye
Hi guys, it's been a while. Here's the storey, Iv'e met this hot, very confident, self sufficient woman online. She's single and has a geat job.

Tells me she'd like some fun in her life; fun being sex. I like what I saw and what I heard. We emailed a lot, I resisted a bit as I'm involved with my 45 year old that I spoke about months ago. Some may recall.

I'm trying my all not to act AFC with this woman and to try to be a challenge, but it hard as hell. I want her so much I can taste her.

She's a female DJ; no joking.

How to proceed? Any advice for bedding this woman?
Come on. You know better (you have 90 posts and as such are a board veteran); there is no advice in the world for bedding any particular broad. Following DJ'ism will increase your chance of success, but there are no guarrantees in life.

Don't be so intimidated by her. She's a 45 year old chick for god's sake. She ain't no DJ neither; she's just mirroring what she finds attractive in men.

You need to turn up the charm a notch; or better yet, forget her. I don't think there are any 45 year old women that are worth too much effort.

Good luck.
 
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