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Need advice on DELAYING sex

ziogothica

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Ok this might sound weird. Cause obviously most people would want to get it going A.S.A.P. But I need to delay it.

I'm with this Girl 1- Basically we're not exactly boyfriend/girlfriend ( I don't think) but we're pretty much together..

Girl 2 wants me to sleep with her.. but i'm currently trying for Girl 1. I need to try to delay Girl 2 from sleeping with me while i'm with Girl 1 (Cause i'm not a complete ******* who cheats on people) but I think Girl 2 is too good to lose. How do I keep her waiting, but still want me, you know, in case things happen with 1 I would want a reserve ya know.. Or do i HAVE to make a choice..

In the end if this thing with Girl 1 gets serious i'm going to have to break it to girl 2 somehow.

But right now. How do i delay it??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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scorpio1138

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You don't.

Just go with the flow.

Make plans with them one at a time.

Once you've made plans DO NOT break the plans (great tip from Roosh)

Work them both at the same time. But don't break plans with one to go after the other, or you might end up with your hand ultimately.
 

eaglez1177

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Its called spinning plates my friend. And your not even going out with girl 1 so dont say any of that crap about "cheating"
 

WC2

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Dude, just f*ck both of them.

How old are you? Are you going to marry any of these women? If your answer is anything other than YES, then you should be f*cking both of them.

"We're not boyfriend or girlfriend, but we're kind of together."

I don't know what that means. Either you have a common understanding that there is to be no fooling around by both parties or you don't.

Don't get stuck in that in the middle, 'i think we're together', kind of BS only to find out that she's banging other men.

Trust me, these women aren't going to 'run away' if they find out that you're boning other women. Sure, they're going to be mad, but that doesn't mean they aren't going to be more emotional about you.

Why do you think it's us a$$holes who are banging girls and their friends and getting away with it?
 

morepoonplease

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there are men who would literally kill to be in this situation... so stop with the idiotic questions and fvck both of them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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