"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Need advice on DELAYING sex

ziogothica

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Ok this might sound weird. Cause obviously most people would want to get it going A.S.A.P. But I need to delay it.

I'm with this Girl 1- Basically we're not exactly boyfriend/girlfriend ( I don't think) but we're pretty much together..

Girl 2 wants me to sleep with her.. but i'm currently trying for Girl 1. I need to try to delay Girl 2 from sleeping with me while i'm with Girl 1 (Cause i'm not a complete ******* who cheats on people) but I think Girl 2 is too good to lose. How do I keep her waiting, but still want me, you know, in case things happen with 1 I would want a reserve ya know.. Or do i HAVE to make a choice..

In the end if this thing with Girl 1 gets serious i'm going to have to break it to girl 2 somehow.

But right now. How do i delay it??
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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scorpio1138

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You don't.

Just go with the flow.

Make plans with them one at a time.

Once you've made plans DO NOT break the plans (great tip from Roosh)

Work them both at the same time. But don't break plans with one to go after the other, or you might end up with your hand ultimately.
 

eaglez1177

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Its called spinning plates my friend. And your not even going out with girl 1 so dont say any of that crap about "cheating"
 

WC2

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Dude, just f*ck both of them.

How old are you? Are you going to marry any of these women? If your answer is anything other than YES, then you should be f*cking both of them.

"We're not boyfriend or girlfriend, but we're kind of together."

I don't know what that means. Either you have a common understanding that there is to be no fooling around by both parties or you don't.

Don't get stuck in that in the middle, 'i think we're together', kind of BS only to find out that she's banging other men.

Trust me, these women aren't going to 'run away' if they find out that you're boning other women. Sure, they're going to be mad, but that doesn't mean they aren't going to be more emotional about you.

Why do you think it's us a$$holes who are banging girls and their friends and getting away with it?
 

morepoonplease

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there are men who would literally kill to be in this situation... so stop with the idiotic questions and fvck both of them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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