"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need advice on acne scars (pics included)

cordoncordon

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Hey man, I need to ask this in all seriousness, is that pic with you with your arms crossed photoshopped with your head onto a different body? Because I gotta be honest, it looks like it because the head looks kinda like a head does when its placed onto a different body..... but the main thing this is your physique in that pic is WAYYYY better than the next one you posted. I mean seriously looks like two different bodies. The one with your arms crossed is buff and ripped, the last one you look like your typical emo skinny Euro boy. So I am calling shenanigans on that one. Gotta be photoshopped.

No way in hell these are the same bodies.

http://pics.pof.com/dating/105/90/4v3h030l2u_191410624-2.jpg
http://a5.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hpho...41500415102_28131069_63657394_891687255_n.jpg
As for your face, you are a good looking guy. If you get some extra money down the line and want to have a derm procedure done, and it will give you more confidence, then do it. If not, no biggie.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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cordoncordon

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You know the more I look at it, I don't even think the first pics from the OP and the next two are even the same guy. Something odd going on here.
 

cordoncordon

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In fact I think the 3rd pic is photoshopped too! What in the HELLLLLL is going on here haha!
 

cordoncordon

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Metaphysical said:
Dude I don't know something is odd about those pics. The first set of pics and the rest of them look like totally different people to me. Unless you lost 50 pounds in that long sleeved pic that is a different person. Look at the shoulders and arms of the one with the arms crossed. Way bigger than the other pic. No way.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Metaphysical

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I know they look weird but I have hundreds of pics and in some I look skinny and in some I look built. It's weird. I think my arms are strangely made. They look thin from the front but big from the side.

They're wide on the side. If that makes any sense..

But yeah Im not photoshopping my arms lol
 

cordoncordon

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Well if you say so but wow that looks like two, make that 3 different people. IF that is really you, like I said you have nothing to worry about. IF it will make you feel better and more confident, then do it.
 

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Dude, you have nothing to worry about.

Put it out of your mind and go get laid or get yourself a nice girl.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SmoothnNerdy said:
IMO no girl in her right mind would think twice about the scars... what will make her think twice is your insecurity about it. We all have stuff we don't like about our bodies, just get past it man.

^^^^^^ This
 

cordoncordon

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Metaphysical said:
You are a good looking guy I wouldnt worry about it.

Are you originally from Europe? You look very Eastern European to me. BTW I live in LA too, let me know if you want to grab a beer sometime.
 
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