Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hey man, I need to ask this in all seriousness, is that pic with you with your arms crossed photoshopped with your head onto a different body? Because I gotta be honest, it looks like it because the head looks kinda like a head does when its placed onto a different body..... but the main thing this is your physique in that pic is WAYYYY better than the next one you posted. I mean seriously looks like two different bodies. The one with your arms crossed is buff and ripped, the last one you look like your typical emo skinny Euro boy. So I am calling shenanigans on that one. Gotta be photoshopped.

No way in hell these are the same bodies.

http://pics.pof.com/dating/105/90/4v3h030l2u_191410624-2.jpg
http://a5.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hpho...41500415102_28131069_63657394_891687255_n.jpg
As for your face, you are a good looking guy. If you get some extra money down the line and want to have a derm procedure done, and it will give you more confidence, then do it. If not, no biggie.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You know the more I look at it, I don't even think the first pics from the OP and the next two are even the same guy. Something odd going on here.
 
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In fact I think the 3rd pic is photoshopped too! What in the HELLLLLL is going on here haha!
 
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Metaphysical said:
No photoshopping, just wearing a slim fitted sweater that doesnt reveal muscles very well.. Looks better in person

two more pics

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Dude I don't know something is odd about those pics. The first set of pics and the rest of them look like totally different people to me. Unless you lost 50 pounds in that long sleeved pic that is a different person. Look at the shoulders and arms of the one with the arms crossed. Way bigger than the other pic. No way.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I know they look weird but I have hundreds of pics and in some I look skinny and in some I look built. It's weird. I think my arms are strangely made. They look thin from the front but big from the side.

They're wide on the side. If that makes any sense..

But yeah Im not photoshopping my arms lol
 
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Well if you say so but wow that looks like two, make that 3 different people. IF that is really you, like I said you have nothing to worry about. IF it will make you feel better and more confident, then do it.
 
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Dude, you have nothing to worry about.

Put it out of your mind and go get laid or get yourself a nice girl.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SmoothnNerdy said:
IMO no girl in her right mind would think twice about the scars... what will make her think twice is your insecurity about it. We all have stuff we don't like about our bodies, just get past it man.
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^^^^^^ This
 
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Metaphysical said:
More pics... none are photoshopped

http://a5.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/38179_936269366802_28131069_56532827_8206691_n.jpg

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You are a good looking guy I wouldnt worry about it.

Are you originally from Europe? You look very Eastern European to me. BTW I live in LA too, let me know if you want to grab a beer sometime.
 
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