"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alright I met this HB8 at skool one day. Didn't really get to talk much my lil sister was **** blockin. So i found her on myspace and sent her a message and we've been talkin back and forth tonight. She just sent me a message that said she was sick of myspace and if i wanted to keep talkin i could call her and gave me her #... So now Im wonderin do i hold off on calling?? Maybe wait until tomorrow. I don't want her to think she's got me in her palm or that im afraid to call her or something. Its like a darn test taht i fail either way. So I need some DJ advice Please!! i know there are prob threads about this already i didn't wanna waste time searching since i need to make this decision now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So i thought about it and i know i should wait a couple days after getting her number but this situation was kinda weird cause we were already having this on going conversation and she wanted to continue it but on the phone. I emailed her back saying i was talking to some other friends and that id try and give her a call this weekend. ... So anyone got some advice for me or criticism. Anythings welcome
 
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i hope its not too late but here you are:

your negative(s):

- dude dont rely on myspace to talk with a girl; maybe in the beginning then get her #. just how long did u talk with her on myspace for her to get sick of it..but here's the thing. once u get her number, u shouldnt really call for a few days. It wont make you seem like a coward..afterall, you had more important things to do, right?

your positive(s):

- you got her number! now dont get all excited and call her ASAP, because that wont help you...trust me. wait a bit then call her to set up a date a few days later!
 
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Well we only had messaged each other three times. Then she gave me the number. And she never got off myspace. So im really thinkin she wasn't sick of myspace.... seriously though if u wanna actually bump things up ur not gonna keep sending stupid messages on myspace... I'm not one for internet sarging. This just happened out of nowwhere. I woulda rather done eveyrthing in person but unfortunately schools out now and i couldnt' since i didn't have her number to talk to her. Now i do and i can pick up from there
 
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