"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alright I met this HB8 at skool one day. Didn't really get to talk much my lil sister was **** blockin. So i found her on myspace and sent her a message and we've been talkin back and forth tonight. She just sent me a message that said she was sick of myspace and if i wanted to keep talkin i could call her and gave me her #... So now Im wonderin do i hold off on calling?? Maybe wait until tomorrow. I don't want her to think she's got me in her palm or that im afraid to call her or something. Its like a darn test taht i fail either way. So I need some DJ advice Please!! i know there are prob threads about this already i didn't wanna waste time searching since i need to make this decision now.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So i thought about it and i know i should wait a couple days after getting her number but this situation was kinda weird cause we were already having this on going conversation and she wanted to continue it but on the phone. I emailed her back saying i was talking to some other friends and that id try and give her a call this weekend. ... So anyone got some advice for me or criticism. Anythings welcome
 
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i hope its not too late but here you are:

your negative(s):

- dude dont rely on myspace to talk with a girl; maybe in the beginning then get her #. just how long did u talk with her on myspace for her to get sick of it..but here's the thing. once u get her number, u shouldnt really call for a few days. It wont make you seem like a coward..afterall, you had more important things to do, right?

your positive(s):

- you got her number! now dont get all excited and call her ASAP, because that wont help you...trust me. wait a bit then call her to set up a date a few days later!
 
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Well we only had messaged each other three times. Then she gave me the number. And she never got off myspace. So im really thinkin she wasn't sick of myspace.... seriously though if u wanna actually bump things up ur not gonna keep sending stupid messages on myspace... I'm not one for internet sarging. This just happened out of nowwhere. I woulda rather done eveyrthing in person but unfortunately schools out now and i couldnt' since i didn't have her number to talk to her. Now i do and i can pick up from there
 
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