"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Need advice how to proceed after first date.

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I met this cute girl we texted and chatted a few times an I invited her out last Saturday she agreed.

We had a good time I initiated kino and as we were walking had my hand on the small of her back. When we sat down next to each other she grabbed and touched my arm and what not.

I didn't kiss close, after the date around 30 minutes later she texted me "Thanks for taking me! I had an awesome time" I responded same here we should do it again sometime she replied "Definitely!"

Come this week I wanted to take her out and she said "next week prob looks better" I didnt respond...but how should I proceed give her another shot next week and ask her out or?

Thanks for your help
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wait a few days, call her, ask her out. She seems interested if she was touching you back. If she says something vague like "well next week works better" say "Hmm I kind of have some stuff to do that week for (work/school/family/etc) but I'll call you". Then wait a few more days and call her again and set up definitive plans.

Also - kiss close!!!!
 
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Uncharted said:
Wait a few days, call her, ask her out. She seems interested if she was touching you back. If she says something vague like "well next week works better" say "Hmm I kind of have some stuff to do that week for (work/school/family/etc) but I'll call you". Then wait a few more days and call her again and set up definitive plans.

Also - kiss close!!!!
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Appreciate it, will talk to her on Wednesday.
 
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