"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need advice how to proceed after first date.

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I met this cute girl we texted and chatted a few times an I invited her out last Saturday she agreed.

We had a good time I initiated kino and as we were walking had my hand on the small of her back. When we sat down next to each other she grabbed and touched my arm and what not.

I didn't kiss close, after the date around 30 minutes later she texted me "Thanks for taking me! I had an awesome time" I responded same here we should do it again sometime she replied "Definitely!"

Come this week I wanted to take her out and she said "next week prob looks better" I didnt respond...but how should I proceed give her another shot next week and ask her out or?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wait a few days, call her, ask her out. She seems interested if she was touching you back. If she says something vague like "well next week works better" say "Hmm I kind of have some stuff to do that week for (work/school/family/etc) but I'll call you". Then wait a few more days and call her again and set up definitive plans.

Also - kiss close!!!!
 
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Uncharted said:
Wait a few days, call her, ask her out. She seems interested if she was touching you back. If she says something vague like "well next week works better" say "Hmm I kind of have some stuff to do that week for (work/school/family/etc) but I'll call you". Then wait a few more days and call her again and set up definitive plans.

Also - kiss close!!!!
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Appreciate it, will talk to her on Wednesday.
 
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