"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need advice. HB8 says that she just broke up

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with her bf 2 weeks ago, and is not really ready to start dating.
Sorry for leading you on.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wait for 4 months, don't talk to ANY other girls in the meantime and hope and pray that she eventually decides she MAY be into you. Call her every day 4 times AT LEAST to be sure she remembers you <sarchasm/>
 
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gspshields2 said:
with her bf 2 weeks ago, and is not really ready to start dating.
Sorry for leading you on.

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Your mistake was grabbing the bait.

This is another reason why beginning in LJBF is good. They have NOTHING TO REJECT. As an LJBF, you could have offered support, friendship with no sexual pressure, and been IN. But nooooo.....

Even as an LJBF, I'd have said to her "Yeah, right, in a week you'll meet some guy and say it "just happened."" Doing this as an LJBF won't make you look jealous, esepcially if you follow up with your own "war stories."

The idea isn't that she'll think you aren't interested. In fact, she'll KNOW you're as full of crap as she is, but by treating her lie like the truth, she winds up checkmates.

One of these days you guys will get it: if ONE chick REJECTS you, it's no big deal. Keep her as an LJBF, and PURSUE OTHER CHICKS. This will help you not only with the other chicks, since you aren't bogged down by oneitis, but walso with the LJBF, who will feel rejected by your lack of pursuit, since she will know the ONLY reason you don't want her, is that you already haev someone hotter.
 
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