"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Need advice. HB8 says that she just broke up

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with her bf 2 weeks ago, and is not really ready to start dating.
Sorry for leading you on.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wait for 4 months, don't talk to ANY other girls in the meantime and hope and pray that she eventually decides she MAY be into you. Call her every day 4 times AT LEAST to be sure she remembers you <sarchasm/>
 
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gspshields2 said:
with her bf 2 weeks ago, and is not really ready to start dating.
Sorry for leading you on.

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Your mistake was grabbing the bait.

This is another reason why beginning in LJBF is good. They have NOTHING TO REJECT. As an LJBF, you could have offered support, friendship with no sexual pressure, and been IN. But nooooo.....

Even as an LJBF, I'd have said to her "Yeah, right, in a week you'll meet some guy and say it "just happened."" Doing this as an LJBF won't make you look jealous, esepcially if you follow up with your own "war stories."

The idea isn't that she'll think you aren't interested. In fact, she'll KNOW you're as full of crap as she is, but by treating her lie like the truth, she winds up checkmates.

One of these days you guys will get it: if ONE chick REJECTS you, it's no big deal. Keep her as an LJBF, and PURSUE OTHER CHICKS. This will help you not only with the other chicks, since you aren't bogged down by oneitis, but walso with the LJBF, who will feel rejected by your lack of pursuit, since she will know the ONLY reason you don't want her, is that you already haev someone hotter.
 
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