HillBilly2022
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I'll try to keep this short.
To start, about me, early 40's, fairly athletic, extremely confident, own a successful construction business. Married for 8 years, together for 5 before that. Wife had 2 kids (18 and 20 now). They are the primary source of drama in the marriage.
Marriage has been rocky for the last 5 years. I still love my wife, she is my best friend, not necessarily attracted to her anymore.
Met a different chick 3 years ago. She lives halfway across the country. Our connection began to grow a lot in May of this year. We have seen each other a couple times a month since then. I am extremely attracted to her, have the best of times when with her. She has an 8 year old daughter, which eliminates the ability for her to move to me.
If I want to be with the new chick, I essentially have to sell my business (2 years premature), divorce my wife and move to her (a move was in my 3-5 year plan).
That is extremely condensed, and if required, I can go into grave detail, but what are the thoughts on this dilemma?
To start, about me, early 40's, fairly athletic, extremely confident, own a successful construction business. Married for 8 years, together for 5 before that. Wife had 2 kids (18 and 20 now). They are the primary source of drama in the marriage.
Marriage has been rocky for the last 5 years. I still love my wife, she is my best friend, not necessarily attracted to her anymore.
Met a different chick 3 years ago. She lives halfway across the country. Our connection began to grow a lot in May of this year. We have seen each other a couple times a month since then. I am extremely attracted to her, have the best of times when with her. She has an 8 year old daughter, which eliminates the ability for her to move to me.
If I want to be with the new chick, I essentially have to sell my business (2 years premature), divorce my wife and move to her (a move was in my 3-5 year plan).
That is extremely condensed, and if required, I can go into grave detail, but what are the thoughts on this dilemma?