Need advice. "Girl problems."

[ThatOneInternetGuy]

So a few days ago I meet a girl and got her number 2 days later I called but she didnt answer, so I figured I'd give it a try the next day ( Which was yesterday). She once again didnt answer so I figured it was her way of saying "not interested". But 2 minutes afterwards she texted me saying " Hey I'll give you a call later busy right now." but it's already the next day and I havent heard from her. Any idea what that means? I won't contact her again though as to not seem clingy. Just confused is all and I'd like to here your thoughts. Thanks.

 

[Fireballs]

Judge her by her ACTIONS, not her WORDS.

Low interest, NEXT!

 

[blind_one]

You might try calling her again in a couple of days after some inactive time, but IMHO that would be desperate, spin plates bro, more of them.

 

[ThatOneInternetGuy]

Thanks for the reply guys, moving on. Strange women.

 

[Don-Kong]

It's easy to assume she's not interested.
It's better to assume:

I am a strong confident man. Chicks are naturally anxious and somewhat intimidated. I want a strong, sexy, confident woman who is not afraid to live life and take risks.

 

[Igetit!]

You might try calling her again in a couple of days after some inactive time, but IMHO that would be desperate, spin plates bro, more of them.

Yeah,spinning places is the best thing you can do.

I had a date scheduled for TODAY.....it's actually supposed to take place in 2 hours. Me and the girl had been messaging each other for the past 3 days back and forth on this dating site. Her last email to me was her asking me the address of the place we were supposed to meet up at.

I replied back giving her the address,but never heard anything back from her. That was yesterday. Our date is supposed to be two hours (4:00pm) from now,but check this out......

I also have another date with a different girl scheduled for tomorrow at noon. Well the girl I have the date with tomorrow,she text me that she's getting off work today early and wanted to know if I'd prefer to meet up today instead.


In my mind I was like,"Well damn.....I don't want to tell the second chick yes,then all of the sudden,the first chick decides to show back up". So now I'm in a bit of a waiting game. I'm waiting til 3:30.....30 minutes before my date with the first chick is supposed to be,and if I don't hear anything from her by then,I'm just going to tell the second one we can go head and meet up.


Point to all this is,HAVE OPTIONS. You said this woman was strange. No she's not......ALL WOMEN pull this from time to time,it's just how it is. It doesn't even mean she's NOT interested....it's just how females be.

I'd let a day or two pass and then contact her,but I'd ALSO be pursuing other chicks as well.

 

[AttackFormation]

So a few days ago I meet a girl and got her number 2 days later I called but she didnt answer, so I figured I'd give it a try the next day ( Which was yesterday). She once again didnt answer so I figured it was her way of saying "not interested". But 2 minutes afterwards she texted me saying " Hey I'll give you a call later busy right now." but it's already the next day and I havent heard from her. Any idea what that means? I won't contact her again though as to not seem clingy. Just confused is all and I'd like to here your thoughts. Thanks.

It means she's stringing you along and you need to next her.

 

[ThatOneInternetGuy]

Appreciate the feed back fellas.

Stringing me? Sorry, not familiar with the term.

 

[Sino Zane]

Stringing you along means she's basically saving you as a plan B. because she's not really that interested in you overall. She wouldn't ignore Tom Brady, for instance. If I were you I'd simply never contact her again unless she seems SUPER eager to spend time with you. If she seems super eager to spend time with you, she will DEFINITELY let you know by contacting you way more frequently.