timmylivingalie
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I have been in the jeans t shirt rut for awhile it is probably hurting. Need some fashion advice.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Need advice for what to wear?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Boilermaker
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start with jeans and real shirts ... then you'll graduate to something nicer
Get in good shape and go to a classy men's store for advices and fine fitting clothes. Start with European fit for both shirts and pants - seems to be the only fit for men who are athletic and V-shaped. The rest are ill-fitting cuts for fatties or skeletal hipster homos.
If you're in bad shape, you'll look bad regardless of what you wear.
kinowear is a red pill website / business with plenty of good advices plus a consulting service for men's fashion.
If you're in bad shape, you'll look bad regardless of what you wear.
kinowear is a red pill website / business with plenty of good advices plus a consulting service for men's fashion.
The easiest transition at this time of year is to khakis and polo shirts. When it's over 90 degrees, cargo shorts and Hawaiian shirts. Upgrade the sneakers to boat shoes. Upgrade the flip flops to sandals with interesting leather work, and get a belt that matches or almost matches the sandals. Accessorize with subtlety: get an analog watch but avoid like the plague those bling-bling divers' watches that mark you as a loud, obnoxious wannabe.
Mesomorphs' strong prejudice for themselves is laughable. Slavery selects for mesomorphs, primitive tribalism and traditional subsistence farm society select for endomorphs, and modern capitalism selects for ectomorphs. Wherever in the world we see a preponderance of mesomorphs, there are now, or were until very recently, backward, anti-intellectual slave societies. That's retrograde -- considering that the main feature that distinguishes humans is their intellect.Jitterbug said:
My man...that is a great way to start! Really goes over the basics and allows someone to build on if they choose too.Down Low said:
OP: Don't forget Henleys (if you're in good shape), pearl clasp cowboy shirts (they are getting huge now), loafers and/or chukka/desert boots. All relatively simple purchases that aren't hard to incorporate into your wardrobe but that make a man look better.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.