"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Need advice for what to wear?

timmylivingalie

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I have been in the jeans t shirt rut for awhile it is probably hurting. Need some fashion advice.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Boilermaker

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start with jeans and real shirts ... then you'll graduate to something nicer
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Get in good shape and go to a classy men's store for advices and fine fitting clothes. Start with European fit for both shirts and pants - seems to be the only fit for men who are athletic and V-shaped. The rest are ill-fitting cuts for fatties or skeletal hipster homos.

If you're in bad shape, you'll look bad regardless of what you wear.

kinowear is a red pill website / business with plenty of good advices plus a consulting service for men's fashion.
 

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The easiest transition at this time of year is to khakis and polo shirts. When it's over 90 degrees, cargo shorts and Hawaiian shirts. Upgrade the sneakers to boat shoes. Upgrade the flip flops to sandals with interesting leather work, and get a belt that matches or almost matches the sandals. Accessorize with subtlety: get an analog watch but avoid like the plague those bling-bling divers' watches that mark you as a loud, obnoxious wannabe.

Jitterbug said:
Get in good shape and go to a classy men's store for advices and fine fitting clothes. Start with European fit for both shirts and pants - seems to be the only fit for men who are athletic and V-shaped. The rest are ill-fitting cuts for fatties or skeletal hipster homos.

If you're in bad shape, you'll look bad regardless of what you wear.
Mesomorphs' strong prejudice for themselves is laughable. Slavery selects for mesomorphs, primitive tribalism and traditional subsistence farm society select for endomorphs, and modern capitalism selects for ectomorphs. Wherever in the world we see a preponderance of mesomorphs, there are now, or were until very recently, backward, anti-intellectual slave societies. That's retrograde -- considering that the main feature that distinguishes humans is their intellect.
 

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Down Low said:
The easiest transition at this time of year is to khakis and polo shirts. When it's over 90 degrees, cargo shorts and Hawaiian shirts. Upgrade the sneakers to boat shoes. Upgrade the flip flops to sandals with interesting leather work, and get a belt that matches or almost matches the sandals. Accessorize with subtlety: get an analog watch but avoid like the plague those bling-bling divers' watches that mark you as a loud, obnoxious wannabe.
My man...that is a great way to start! Really goes over the basics and allows someone to build on if they choose too.

OP: Don't forget Henleys (if you're in good shape), pearl clasp cowboy shirts (they are getting huge now), loafers and/or chukka/desert boots. All relatively simple purchases that aren't hard to incorporate into your wardrobe but that make a man look better.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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